My wife just shared with me that she believes she really is “a glass half empty” kind of person.
That sounds strange to me.
I have known her since we were very nearly children together, and I have never seen her that way at all.
I have seen her struggle with that kind of thinking many times over the years, but I never think of it as defining her, any more than she’s defined by struggling with a cold or sore muscles after a good workout.
Maybe she struggles with it more often than some others do, but I always see it as a temporary affliction.
So is love blind?
Or is it more true that when we find ourselves mired down with everyday struggles and our own harsh judgements, love sees us with eyes more open to who we truly are.